I'm meeting up with me former room-mate and friend today to have the Talk, and I've been dreading it for months because I'm not very good at giving people closure, when I tried it with my ex boyfriend, he got it in his head that there was still a chance for us, so no.. not very good at Talks, at all. I seem to pend between "impossible to take in"-ruthless and "easy to misinterpreted"-sugar-coat, neither of which is very helpful. Why can't we just emotionally detach, then cut off all contact, and avoid each other forever? it really works fine, really!
3 comments:
it's human nature to stay beyond the
point of expiration. it's probably not
your fault he felt like there was
still a chance. it's just how people are.
purposefully dense? ;)
I don't think I've ever had any moment of closure with anybody... perhaps that's why I always feel so lost and reminiscent constantly. :/
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